Monday, January 15, 2007

Day +194

I am fine today. Now back to talk about my pre-transplant preparation and struggle. Continue from my blog Day +158.

As explained in my blog Day +157, in order to find a suitable donor, all of my 8 brothers and sisters did a HLA typing. The test was done in UH and each test cost RM550. The total amount that I paid was 8 x RM550 + RM550 (myself) = RM4400.

I issued 3 cheques to UH on 21 January, 22 February and 23 February 2006 with a total amount of RM4400. Do you know what happened to the cheques? Not even cleared by now!

About 4 months after I issued the cheques, a man called Zakaria met my brother Richard in UH to discuss the payment. We did not know who he was. He took out the three cheques and suggested Richard to exchange them with cash. In order to encourage us to hand him cash, he said he would give us a discount of RM550. A ‘win-win’ solution, isn’t it? However, Richard declined. After this, they lose interest totally at the cheques until they ‘forgot’ to bank them in.

This thing corrupted people mind, corrupted the administration and then corrupted the nation. This is merely the tip of an iceberg (冰山一角). There were so many promises that these things will be ‘handled’ by the ‘top’, but the greatest ‘win-win’ deals are struck on the ‘top’. I looked at this as a top-down syndrome. The tremendous amount of effortless income generated through these deals make the ‘top’ too weak to handle themselves :-( Sigh! This is another Malaysia Boleh!

They returned the three cheques to me on 21 December 2006 and requested me to send them new one because they were expired. I will definitely pay them. However, how do I know next year this time they won’t return the new cheque again and ask me to issue another one?

Never mind-lah, be patient. I will just wait until they ‘beg’ me frantically for the cheque before issuing them a new one. This is to make sure that they will bank in this time before the 6 months expiry period.

See you next post :-)

37 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dearn David,

My suffering is just a tip of your "iceberg"'s experience in fighting leukemia:)

This brief suffering(hopefully), made me lost my enthusiastic interest in pursuing career success and i'm now so scare of getting back to work the coming Thursday or Friday.

Let's leave everything in our Abba's hand, and i shall now rest and relax. Amen.

Cheers,
Grace

David said...

Dear Grace,

Yes,just leave everything to God. Relax and enjoy life at home now.

If everything is fine, I will be back to work next week also :-)

Cheers,
David

Anonymous said...

Hi David,

Not sure you want to have this treatment as additional remedy for your ailment.

There is this herabal practioner Mr Lim in Rompin who can and has cured cancer patients with Chinese Herbs.

He doesn't charge his patients for consultations and herbal doses and patients donate to his charity body voluntarily and there are many ex-patients who are healed help him to tender his herbal crops.

Shall be glad to provide more information if you are interested.

Get well soon.

Cheers.

Peter

Anonymous said...

Bear Bro.David,
I say this to you as an encouragement and to continue to have Faith in our Heavenly Father.
About 4 years ago, I had a massive heart attack. I went into the Hospital in the nick of time.
After about 3 hours, the Doctor gave up hope and said that there was nothing more that he could do. I had stopped breathing. All that my young children and my wife could do was stare at the Doctor in disbelief. As my family was just standing there in a state of shock, the Doctor simply, all of a sudden said "wait, I'll try one more time" and he proceeded to de-fribillate me. A short while later, I am not sure just how long it was, I heard the Doctor's voice saying "welcome back". I feebly asked "what happened" and he replied "we lost you there for a while".
At the same time that my heart stopped breathing, I distinctly remember this: The devil came and I heard him say "you are dead and your family is crying, just comdemn God". I then replied "devil, you are in hell, go back there, my family will live on Faith, in God our Heavenly Father"
That's when I heard the Doctor say "welcome back".
During all this time, our Cell Group Leader and another Member were a few feet away, continously Praying. God said, if two or more people gather in My name, I will be present".
We serve an awesome and Faithful God. Hold on to your Faith.
Child of God.

Anonymous said...

God Bless, with heal and trust.

Anonymous said...

something for everybody to ponder.. i mean, at least you have to visit this once in your lifetime.. before the time is coming, at least take the chance to visit this site:

http://www.harunyahya.com/

i suggest, this reading:
http://www.harunyahya.com/articles/32prayer.php

relax and be positive, a second is worth a minute if we know how to appreciate and perform our responsibilities in this temporal world.. cheers!

-sharing everything for goodness-

Palmdoc said...

In the battle against Goliath, we know who one.
Peace

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Walski69 said...

May God give you strength to see you through this time of tribulation.

Take care 'n PEACE!

Anonymous said...

may Allah and godddess of mercy bless you

LC_Teh said...

Hang on David. You've got courage. We'll pray for you... And keep writing.

Anonymous said...

With your courage, already half the battle won. Wish you a quick recovery!

gP said...

Wish you a safe recovery. May God Bless you.

Anonymous said...

Hello Divid,

I went throught operations, chemo and radiation in 1999. So far so good. Things are under control.

Since one of my sisters has a Chinese herbal clinic (in Ireland, with 2 Chinese doctors), right from the start I was under both herbal and western medical treatments. My US oncologists did not have any problems that I was taking chinese herbs while having chemo. This is what he said: if the herbs is going to help you in getting well, why not?

What I think most useful is, just be positive. Remember, cancer is not the only thing that people die from. The good thing about cancer is, we are given a warning. Some of us are luckier and given many more years to live.

Personally I take it as a message that I should clean up my acts and be a better person. Soon after my first operation, I found this 'message' among my reading materials. It is from Jack London. Quote:

The proper function of man is to live, not to exist. I should not waste my days in tring to prolong them...I shall use my time.

I would also appreciate it very much if you could give me the contact info of Peter (or give him my email address). I am interested to know more about Mr. Lim from Rompin. my email is cindylemcke_hoong@yahoo.co.uk

Keep smiling.

Cindy

Nicholas Chay said...

Get well soon, David.

Godbless.

From a reader of Jeff Ooi.

Anonymous said...

David, I'm sure your positive attitude will definitely give you a morale boost in fighting leukemia. I believe that you will be truly blessed with miracles from GOD.

I wish you a speedy recovery and Im praying hard for your recovery. God Bless You David.

From Steven

Anonymous said...

Yeap dude God bless man. Keep the faith He will deliver. Yeah the health system nay, the administration in the country really needs an overhaul. You will be in our prayers.

Justin

geovanni said...

Dear David,

Believe in what you believe regardless of the ending. You will definitely find the light there.

GOD BLESS YOU to recover fully soon.

Anonymous said...

God bless.
Take care + have faith.
*hugz*

David said...

Dear All,

Thanks everyone for the encouragments and sharings.

Peter, you can email me through gmail at david.healed.

Cindy, I will let you have Peter contact once I got it.

Cheers,
David

Anonymous said...

dear david,

you remind me of the biblical david - the one who slayed goliath. may your faith in jesus give you strength to remain steadfast in the midst of your pain and give you complete healing. keeping you in our prayers. god bless.

Chickenriceboy said...

David,

Then your light will break forth like the dawn,
and your healing will quickly appear;
then your righteousness [a] will go before you,
and the glory of the LORD will be your rear guard
Isaiah 58:8

Declare it loud for the word of the Lord shall go forth and not back void.

Heavenly Father , May you choose to back David up and manifest your healing in such authority that every cancer cell may flee and that David will able to testify that it is you who Heals.

Choose to turn to Him David, for what you have went through are trials that test your trust in Him. Lord may You comfort His pains even in going through the toughest battle physically and allow his worries becomes Yours.

In Jesus Mighty Name
Amen.
Joshua Tan

Anonymous said...

I would like to find out from Peter the contact of this Mr Lim in Rompin. I have a friend whose aged mum is having leukaemia. This Mr Lim might be able to help. You may email me at kh_khlim@yahoo.com. Many thanks.

David said...

I am still waiting for Peter's email. I will contact you once I got it. David

Anonymous said...

All the best, David.
Patrick

Unknown said...

Wishing you all the best. God bless you.

Tru-Asian said...

Your courage shown in this blog is much admired. Continue to open wide the door for the spirit of God's wisdom to enter yout heart.

Anonymous said...

David,
My sis' went throught operations, chemo and radiation last year.
She is fine now, practising a bit of Qi Gong, and doing some Tai Chi everyday.
As a teacher, she has now back to school teaching early this year.

God bless you, get well soon.
Cheers.

Khalid said...

O God! the Creator of mankind! Remove this disease and cure him! You are the Great Curer. There is no cure but through You, which leaves behind no disease

Anonymous said...

Hi David,

I just sent you the contact details of Mr Lim.

Take care.

Cheers.

Peter

David said...

Hi Peter,

I have forward the contacts to Cindy and Lim already.

Thank you so much.
David

Mahesan said...

Dear David,

I trust you are well.

I know of a spiritual healing centre based in Puchong where the healer, Mr.Hari has helped heal many cancer patients succesfully.

There is no medication involved and the entire healing process is done via prayers alone.The name of the centre is Irah Home Of Healing.

You can get further information about the centre at www.irah-healing.com. The contact number is 012-672 5485.

Take Care and Have a Wonderful Year Ahead !

Cheers
Mahesan

David said...

Thank you, Mahesan. Your recommendation is note.

Best Regards,
David

Anonymous said...

Hi David,

Stay strong. Believe that you will get well. The power of your mind could override your physical situation.

Continue to inspire more people to live life to the fullest! :)

David said...

Thank you, redsmoke :-)

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Anonymous said...

Hi Mahesan, do you have any idea if this home of healing is still running? The website is not valid anymore.

Thanks,
Pauline